Married more than one For men who want to carry out a second marriage, then this is permissible in Islam. MY FELLOW MUSLIMAHLETS GET CLOSE TO ALLAHSO WE CAN GET OUR HUSBANDS TO BE CLOSE TO US..INSHA ALLAH.. Im in agreement with the comments however one thing i feel is never addressed is what if the husband does not fulfill his basic duties as a husband/father? The article is sure a nice way of giving a heads up of how many men tend to think like. .you can teach manners n respect n every thing else to a woman cause u feed her but who teaches the wild horse running around in the greed to conquer the world.my ears are sick n tiered of listening to the word peer pressures.exposer n all that crap.by God theres a thing called shaitan n we all have to fight it. The cookies is used to store the user consent for the cookies in the category "Necessary". More men die due to accidents and diseases than women. Allah knows best , there is a reason for this , you just need trust Allah . Surely if you love your wife you do not do that. Does their feelings dont count anymore? dont make up hadiths urself. GOD has not created women emotionless Serve you to God in the matters of wives, for you take them with the message of Allah and you make their halal cults with the words of Allah. full, without reckoning Another first wife, `A'ishah, says: "My husband was quite plain about his intentions to marry a second wife. There are many going on right now as we speak, many man who die in war, many widows and children left alone, many divorces and broken families, more and more man who turn out to be gay. (interpretation of the meaning): Verily, he who fears Allaah with obedience to Him (by Shame on these people. Let not your possessions and your children forsake you from the remembrance of Allah, whoever maketh them they are the losers. (Verse 63: 9). When 1 or 2 months he lives with 2 nd wife I feel that I am not having any husband. But she should seek for the reasons behind second marriage if not convincing then could go for divorce. Your husband needs to know that youre going to be by his side if: You should be loyal to your husband before everything else except Allah and His Messenger (pbuh). when you bring it out again after all these years hell surely become again that fantasy sixteen year old you might have previously resorted to when he sheepishly said oops sorry just seems i aint in the mood luv. the shaytaan that have to do with this matter, and do not give evil any way I mourned him for a long, long time. Do keep him informed but only with the most important necessary details. If that happens, each spouse starts to dream of a stable If you still want to know more then as a sheikh. Daeef al-Jaami al-Sagheer, no. i agree with u kay. Like having a strong financial condition and have the ability to do justice with both wives if he cant then he shouldnt go for second marriage. Al-Tirmidhi (2399) narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Ameen. He said that I wasn't attractive and that he wants to spend the remainder of his life with a young and attractive woman. It could be that when you are there with him, he will get better, but you should be careful and tell you that you demand being treated with dignity. husbands doing haraam things than to their marrying another woman in a This is what usually comes to mind when people talk about loyalty in a marriage.What Im talking about is knowing that the person whom youve chosen to spend the rest of your life with is going to be there for you when you really need them. And about this respect issue, nothing comes by itself. abstaining from sins and evil deeds, and by performing righteous good Unbelievable!!! My husband never ever thinks or talks to other women. I have a lot more to say but I feel I have said enough. However a woman is not the same level as the man as shes required to please him in whatever situation unless its a situation where she has no power to do anything about (i.e monthly periods). If you (men) want to do a second marriage. Muslim girl, read the brothers comment carefully then make your comment. He came to my brothers house to see me. Women in 2017 dont need financial assistance from their spouse. But if a sister insists on certain conditions in her own ahd nikah (marriage contract) she is being selfish. The Truth is, one who does an atoms weight of evil,will see it. But not when normal conditions exist. All Rights Reserved. He Thinks About Other Women Like, she still performs her duties and obeys/respects her husband, but it hurts her so much she even cries during intercourse with her husband as he did the same with another woman. Me and my husband is living in foreign.every year he come for vacation 1 or 2 months and he spend full time with 2 nd wife. You never know a persons situation until you are in it. It all seems so many years ago now. As for the positive result that you say your friend got, Suppose if a wealthy man marries two woman. If anyone ever asked, I would describe my relationship as strong, trusting, and extremely happy. If muslim women can accept these little tips and advices, then our marriages will be wonderful. If available, get professional support or involve trusted friends that understand the cultural background. dream and the like, these are usually illusionary matters on which no shari Men are in charge of women by what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend from their wealth. So its incumbent on the husband to be kind to his wife, discuss the matter with her in a gentle and pleasant manner, and this should be coupled with spending whatever money may be necessary in order to gain her acceptance of the situation. OK, he won't cheat because it will be a legitimate marriage instead of an affair, but isn't it still really bad? Bravo.Mashallah.this is the thoughts of a regular muslim guy. So really, #4 about him thinking of other women is not bad, that is his right. I dont know if I should go away, dissappear. Jazakallahukairan, am really insppired by this post. Our teachings go back a very long time, what Allah has given the Prophet (PBUH) to teach us is final, to question it is not right.equality is important, and we are taught that. Allah commands us in the Quran to lower our gaze, which is to prevent us from having improper thoughts. 6 mos later he asked me to marry him. I asked him to make Istikaara namaaz and ask Allahs guidance and he did so and he performed his namaaz thrice and all 3 times he got a positive answer with me.I dont see him but I know that since his a very decent boy and sincere. i`m sleeping alone. where it is not clear if the matter is good or bad, and the Muslim does not Here is an explanation of the Quranic verse below. If he loves you although you are You mean rapeee!??? Excuse my typos. No man can do justice with all wifes its impossible thats why that line was put in their therefor it is not allowed but Allah will forgive you if you seek his forgiveness. I am a woman but I know men very good . honestly if he just cant, he cant. It is hard to be all that for a man who doesnt respect,show love,have intimacy and hardly spends any time with kidsDo not bother him with small talk?what is that? Intention to worship and remember Allah taala. He says that he doesnt want them cause they dont have respect for themselves. SubhanAllah ladies , stop being selfish . Do not hit the face, do not vilify, and do not boycott it other than inside the house. ( HR. this is bcoz during prophet mohamed tme many men died due to war, so their wife and family should not be helpless or they wont go in wrong way. Infront of all insulting me. up his family? The hadith regarding this matter says fair treatment. All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger. I know men wont admit that they are at fault instead they would prove us women wrong. Those who hate and fail to forgive, build darkness in their own heart. Bottom line is this the wife was respectful to him. Whatever I used to ask my husband he always said no for it but he wanted me to say yes for whatever he ask for. Just be sincere and the next time you think about one of the great things he does that makes you love him . No sister, theres no proof of any such against the man. Good advice, but zowji doesnt like sandwhiches! its haram to do that. This article is so sexist its hilarious. But you cant force him. Kindly tell me what should I do and with what reference I can convince my parents. the author needs to reevaluate his Islamic morals! Id understand if it were for a womans survival purposes but never for pleasure. ALLAH knows about us more then we know our on self. @Kay: can u provide some Daleel (proof) for your statements.I would love to examine them. He would say his family is who give birth to him and he grow up with Im just woman he marry. I do not deserve this treatment. good points you wrote, but in reality, you havent married. ?I dont buy that.Atleast my husband doesnt.I do not agree with that. They like to get it on with as many women as they possibly can, like my friends ex-husband. May Allah bless you. I follow all the rules mentioned above. Its true men think about other women, but that doesnt make it right. If she is married, then such a He explained that no matter what he will try his best, but if he ends up finding a 2nd wife he mentioned that he would never leave me and take on the responsibilities as a husband and father and never leave my side.i am just so dumbfounded about all this, i know that forever is long.i just dont know what to think of iti am glad i read your post though, it has got me thinking, but i am still in the clouds about iti am a christian, and i dont know whether i should stay in this relationship or just call it quits..i do love him with all my heart, i am just a bit hesitant on the other 2nd person if ever that comes to pass, he said he will try his best, but what if it does happen, is the question. To read that title he thinks about other women and then the next one.. he wants to make you happy The idea, that he or she is not going to stick by you.Im not talking about infidelity. Lets face the reality, sisters, men are not perfect and they love sex so much than us. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): who repress anger, and who pardon men; verily, Allaah We do not like our father to have another wife, women also hate their husbands to marry again but thats because it is no longer part of todays lifestyle in many societies but if people get used to it as for example if every one have more than a wife then it will not be a big deal I think. From your question, it may be understood that Allaah has Hindus are more polygamous than Muslims The report of the Committee of The Status of Woman in Islam, published in 1975 mentions on page numbers 66,67 that the percentage of polygamous marriages between the year 1951 -1961 was 5.06 among the Hindus and only 4.31 among the Muslims. this was supposes to be my first eid-ul adha and because its his first in 36 years without his parents and relatives he was annoyed of something little, said i ruined his eid, acted like im not his wife, and said to me he has the worst eid because of me, and for 2 days we argued so bad that now he said he is happier without me and he wouldnt miss me or my kisses(he said wallahi) . There are several other reasons, why Islam has permitted limited polygyny, but it is mainly to protect the modesty of women. Then came the third time, and he said: Marry a good and fertile woman, for I am proud of your multitudes against the other peoples.(HR Abu Dawud and Shaykh al-Albani), Another factor that allows a man to make a second marriage is due to an illness suffered by his wife. This may happen to a lot of marriages but in different times. Some of these men today use as Islamically allowed just so they can have it their way. I pray sister all works well for you I am shocked by this backward/baseless thinking. According to Talmudic law, Abraham had 2 wives, and Solomon had hundreds of wives. you dont have to be a muslim wife to do these just a wife..it goes without sayingmarriage is a commitment for life thats just me personallyy.if you cant ..then dont get married..im a catholic and my fisnce is muslim ..hes s just the same with a non muslim guy.hes a man he has a needs and when you love someone..you will do anything to keep him happy im not even his wife yet and im doing that already. They are not property that can be done with at any time without any consideration; women are life partners. 1. I disagree with #4. Just my observation. Very good knowledge!! According to it:- When a man calls his wife to his bed, and she does not respond and he (the husband) spends the night angry with her, the angels curse her until morning. God alone knows how many million more females there are in the whole world as compared to males. and another thing the most important thing: my husband Mustapha never hides anything from me of corse not and I never hide anything from him! I too am deciding divorce. @Marij Usmani if you study Islam truthfully you will know u need to ask first. If they do what you hate, beat them with a hard blow and hurt. Sister Sabeeqa, this life is a test for us to be rewarded in the life hereafter. walan ta3delo, so as it says at the beginning of surat al-nisa , One wife is Better if you cannot treat them equally. My husband went to Egypt to visit his family as usual. I guess this is life and we should always say Alhamdulliah. Islam is about logic and clear thinking. When polygamy is brought up we have this notion or fantasy that the man will be living the life and fulfill his desire and the women will suffer. His answer he said, will be dependent on her acceptance of Polygamy. Polygyny is permitted in Judaism. He marry me just because he loves me but I only had one think in my heart for him hatred. He never read Esha namaaz that night, because he never woke up. You did your duty in the right way, that means you passed in your test with good marks, whatever your husband did, he is accountable for that to Allah. I liked him and I liked everything about him. An outrage. Log in, Join our e-mail list for regular site news and updates, All Rights Reserved for Islam Q&A 1997-2023. In the hadith of Abu Dawud below, it is narrated. Moreover, both women are siblings or have the same blood relations with your wife before. He Loves You, Even If He Doesnt Always Show It Can I? Now I also got 1 boy child. Finally, it may indicate that you are committed to the relationship between your husband and his sister-in-law. Truly jealousy is what Allah loves and some whom He hates, his jealousy is al-ghirah (jealousy) for evil, his envied jealousy is jealous (things) that are not evil.(HR an-Nasai and Ibn Hibban), 15. Whatever Allaah makes easy for him My husband never show or say any love words to me. Read your message and its very sad to know how this brother is treating you. He have hurt so much and I alway sad all I think what do I do wrong he cheat on me so much. And why would I when I love my wife. This article is informative. "In 2019 my husband admitted to being in love with this woman and he sends her money from time to time and also claims to be the godfather of her children." Sun, Jan 15, 2023 LOGIN Subscribe for $1 he will not be able to stay with out her. Chapter 4, Verse 34 2. If it were me, its then that I would not be available for him at that given time. The moment you hide it from your first wife means you lack the genuine reason. No one is worth that much that you should ruin your happiness over. said to her: Enter Paradise from whichever of the gates of Paradise you Out of them, nadima was married for four years. Narrated from Aisha Radhiyallahu anhuma, If the Prophet Sallallahu alaihi wa Sallam is about to travel, then he draws among his wives; whichever of them is his part, he goes out with him. It cannot be said that a Muslim who has two, three or four wives is a better Muslim as compared to a Muslim who has only one wife. This was shockingly one sided. Suppose my sister happens to be one of the unmarried women living in USA, or suppose your sister happens to be one of the unmarried women in USA. This is what I am afraid of. (Imam al-Bukhari ). So when your husband buys you a gift, accept it, rejoice over it, thank him profusely, and use it as often as possible. We are a happy couple and have a beautiful family life. Answering your question, Sheikh M. S. Al-Munajjid, a prominent Saudi Muslim lecturer and author, states: Ive read this article & I feel this article is like imposing things on women. reward mentioned, but al-Tabaraani narrated from Ibn Masood that the Firstly: A woman does not have the power to divorce (talaaq) her husband; rather divorce is in the hand of the man, because the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: " (The right of divorce) belongs to the one who takes hold of the calf [i.e., her husband]." Classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh Ibn Maajah second wife will bring a special reward over and above that, for several There is just not one reason why Man is allowed to have more than 1 wife in Islam. you are leading readers that are muslim men in the wrong path! what is his greatest dream, namely the destruction of a stable, believing as far as i know most of the man have one wife. I am again into depression and dont know what to do. My above statement was based on what I have understood from the article. sorrow, nor sadness, nor hurt, nor distress befalls a Muslim, not even a With a marriage will create offspring and kinship ties. May be its a new beggining of life which Allah knows more and he is the creator and Almighty. Prophet Muhammad also often experienced it, below is the prayer of the Prophet Muhammad SAW to Allah taala. . It will still hard for us before we get used to the Idea! You give her (your wife) to eat if you eat and give her clothes if you dress. Plain and simple. seriously good points you have mentioned here. Will Allah still be angry with me if I stop having any feeling for him? You can decide to divorce him. DONT EXPECT RESPECT. I rather not have a car or smartphone from my husband but have his LOYALTY. If you only learn to use it properly. take time to let him know he exists in your your own busy self assertive, high achieving life of yours; dear muslim sister. There are no specific hadiths about many things. For those who are saying that men have no obligation to inform first wife of seond marriage. For this reason, there are more deaths among males as compared to the females during paediatric age. and would you say my husband still qualifies for the above? I feel awe, admiration and respect for any woman who gives her blessing to her husband taking a second wife. and content and treat him well so that you can attain the reward of the Instead of focusing on starting up a business to impress your wife and to give her more, how about reading the Quran to understand and asking Allah to truly get what you want. [al-Zumar 39:10], According to the hadeeth: No fatigue, nor disease, nor It is not obligatory for the husband, if he wants to take a second wife, to have the consent of his first wife, but it is good manners and kindness to deal with her in such a manner that will minimize the hurt feelings such thing might produce. both of you. These feelings and emotions would be enough to destroy the relationship, if not straight away, certainly, in the near future. For some women, polygamy is a deal breaker no matter. I work to support my family some days Im utterly exhausted i cry because i wonder for how long i can do this for! Men should also remember this aspect of our role model Prophet Muhammad (SAW) that he didnt marry any other wife till Khadija RA, the first wife was alive. There are some important rules that must be considered especially for husbands who want to do (married) again. (960 A.D to 1030 A.D) issued an edict against it. i understand now whyand hope that we can adjust to each other more. i hope this may reply to most of the posted comments regarding husband to have more than one wife. Out of these, the cookies that are categorized as necessary are stored on your browser as they are essential for the working of basic functionalities of the website. Sorry to hear what your husband does but believe me every single Muslim husband is not same.i saa muslim husband respect thier wifes and help them when they need so please do not think negative about islam .islam is really wide about womens right if you get chance study quran or islamic book .thanks fe-aman-Allah, I am working woman, my husband is also posess good job, alhamdu lillah wealth, but since15 years iam living with my inlaws,my inlaws r very stubborn and torchering me, i am asking for seprate house but not ready . Tell him how much nicer hed look if he grew his beard. And my parents wont allow me to to it until I atleast pass the age of 22but being that I am a hormonal mess, I have to admit that as a female that I have desires that I would love to fulfill with my future husbandhowever that is not a reality for me. Im living the same exact situation. A man who thinks about other women issue- he will not get that much desired loyalty,respect and the sex on the plate that he expects from his wife. If he sincerely tries to solve your problems and helps you in the best way he can. We had 5 kids and he had been an active Leader in our Catholic Church organization. And seek only to please Allah subhana watala. deeds), and is patient, then surely, Allaah makes not the reward of the Astagfirullah Allah forgive us all ameen. Being fair in sharing the heart often makes men difficult, especially after did a second marriage. it wasnt until 1 month before we married the he drops the bombshell on me, he tells me, I am married, have been 4 yrs now and I have 2 kids, Mind you we were together for 3. I had to be treated by my doctor for depression. THAT is why it was allowed, so that they could have someone to care for them. Because you are right not every man is the same and no one should follow this article (its based on the authors experiences) only act as the person you married acts towards you and follow Allah he whos judges all. Just because man is ALLOWED to take a second wife, doesnt mean he should. Islam even make a wife to ask for permission from her husband if she wants to fast (not Ramadhan fasting). I shared with him that I was still in contact with his friend and things were getting serious. i`m married for the second time. Allah, Most High, does not command that a married couple love each other. And constantly comparing us to Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) aint helping.Of course, we are supposed to emulate him (pbuh) as much as we can. Restricting each and every man to have only one wife is not practical Even if every man got married to one woman, there would still be more than thirty million more females in USA who would not be able to get husbands (considering that America has twenty five million gays). To be clear, no religion does anything on its own. We moved in with my brother and his family. Divorce does not mean divorce. Remember humans are imperfect but Allah and the quaran Islam is perfect. However a few smart people before accepting, said they would prefer their sisters to remain virgins. who were patient and sought reward even though many of them felt jealous. Muhsinoon (gooddoers) to be lost Us girls leave our loving family homes to be with our husbands and create that same love there. Ofcourse not. Can I marry her? Husbands are supposed to be the head of a family, being head of the family doesnt just mean passing commandments. Now days our men cant pick up anything more dangerous than a smartphone or playstation if he had to protect his family. If you insist on self respect from the beginning then it will be the core of your lone life together In Sha Allah. if your husband stops listening and refuses to help you understand what you clearly want to, but instead demands and demands to have what he alone needs and by any means necessary takes what he needs. Answer (1 of 7): if you don't want your husband to marry another woman tell him. Has there been negative history? quickly it ends. Would this be a question that a girl should ask a suitor just to make sure hes ok with this and not to have any surprises on the wedding night? The author of the article should revise that fact about multiple marriages and how it say it should be undertaken only due to dire needs (not because He wants to for fun). I dont understand why man cheat on wife so much. I dont understand when good women devote themselves to their husbands and yet men want 2nd, 3rd, and 4th wives in some cases? Then he came to him a second time, and he forbade it. Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah. this waa not my decision but it was the doctor who told me to do an abortion as my baby skul did not formed and he would died as soon as he take birth.truly I did not want to do abortion but it was hubby who convinced me to do that.after abortion I had to do curettage.n truly I was appreciated when hubby took great care of me on the hospital. i really like this article. Arabbi. Their right to you is (obtaining) sustenance and clothing in a sensible way. So you are in essence saying that you are disgusted with something Allaah allowed and the Prophet peace be upon him, practiced. Dream about husband with another woman in general When you had a dream about your husband with another woman, it could be a reflection of your subconscious mind. Sounds like a rough deal, I dont see how any of this would make a woman feel proud. Have taqwa women! The problem is men hide their second marriage from their first wife which itself is a evidence of unjust behaviour which means he shouldnt go for second marriage as he is unable to do justice. If he wants a second wife just because he wants another to have sex, if we accept their nature, so he is going to keep loving us. Sister, I would be careful about saying that multiple marriages disgust you. 3 If she feels angry because of that, but she controls her That my way is a little cliche, and sterotypical but none the less, he still loves me. Here is an explanation of one verse of the Quran. As messed up as that sounds why didnt you leave him in the 1st year? My dear Sisters & Brothers, We will do absolutely good to Our Souls if We desist from Extremism. This goes hand in hand with respect.Theres nothing that will ruin a marriage quicker than the idea that your spouse is not loyal. sex and bearing children are the biggest rights of men in marriage. how can we question ALLAHER command. It will keep him away from different kinds of sins and might also keep him from going to other woman. He is a man and capable of anything. Russia has nine million more females than males. I think the writer of this article is a bit misinformed. Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: Allaah has I am sure it is in the context that husbands should try to coax their wives, instead of saying lets go. But women should not let jealousy make them object to that which Allah has permitted, and they should not try to prevent it; a wife should allow her husband to marry another woman for this is a kind of cooperating in righteousness and piety. If your husband has a busy routine, dont bother him with small quarrels of the day. The writer is just being realistic! There are a million and one articles online written by non-Muslims that say the same thing. Gifts dont make up for it, and gifts dont make me respect someone. My husband converted to Islam and married another Posted by R.A. August 8, 2017 Printer-friendly I come in peace.. My husband and I married in a Catholic Church and we have lived for 24 years. He probably cheated on you because you didnt fulfill his sexual desires so he left you in the dust. permissible manner. Your email address will not be published. Pathetic. Im just 19 almost 20 in sha Allah and not used with a marriage so i cry often(now without reasons of course) and i dont always use the greatest tone when im mad at him but i do other amazing things for him which whom now he forgot. Ds my true life I am leaving with Allahs mercy. But if he does not do it purposely then he wont get sins. It is also worth mentioning that the bride has the right before marriage to demand her fiance to agree in advance to certain conditions of hers, in case he is interested in pursuing another marriage later on. Mam as everything without nikha we lived 5 years after dt my hubby convenienced dr parents I we get Nikha within one year my hubby attracted with other women bt I couldnt know how its happem. Because of this my husband calls me disloyal yet if i dont confide and let my worries out i feel overwhelmed, anxious, miserable even to the extent of feeling ill. i would love nothing more than to see my husband off to work and welcome him home to a clean tidy house, a meal on the table and myself looking the way he likes me to look. Roles of man and wife are divided in Islam. if a man truly loves his wife he would never think about any other woman and yes like KAY said i would leave my man the second he thinks about marrying another woman, regardless how much i love him. 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